Sunday, August 18, 2013

Urban Dictionary: mammy

Urban Dictionary: mammy


1. a black woman, depicted as rotund, homely and matronly.

The mammy is an archetype, portraying a domestic servant of African descent who is generally good-natured, often overweight, and loud. The stereotypical mammy is portrayed as obsequiously servile or acting in, or protective of, the interests of whites

Although the word "mammy" is a variant of "mother" and was common in North America, it is now rarely used and typically considered an ethnic slur. In parts of the UK however, mammy is still widely used as a synonym for "mother" by young people, without any racial connotation.
Quaker Oats recently gave their "Aunt Jemima" pancake syrup bottle a makeover to remove the racially insensitive mammy image.

2. Mammy - term has evoled quite drastically from the early late 19th - early 20th century. When the term was used to describe a black woman in a dominant white household that took care of the children and housework to create better life for her own children.

However, the term in present time is used to describe an unfit, lazy, uncaring, wannabe grown, irresponsible or unruly mother. 
Jose grabbed her child and all the child's toy and place the child inside the house unattended without telling anyone. Just to go score some weed with a somewhat complete stranger. Now that's a mammy!

3. Another term for mother
I am going to go visit my mammy.


4. An exclamation that is used to identify an unintended subtle sexual innuendo.
You are driving with one or more friends and pull into a parking lot. You see a sign that says "Use Rear Entrance" and exclaim "MAMMY! Alternately, your roommate comes back from class and is drenched from a rainstorm. She says "Oh my God, I am so wet!" and you say "Mammy!" 


5. The best grandmother in the whole damn world.
Dude, Mammy totally bought me a pony for Christmas.


6. The joint relationship between two eternal lovers, one being the cutest blonde female with blue sunflower filled eyes. The other lover must have brown eyes that light up when the female is present. Mammy's have everything you can think of in common. Mammy's are very intercourse oriented lovers that eat macaroni and cheese once satisfied. Preferably Panera Bread. Mammy's live for roughly 112 years, and find one anothers love once the age of 18 is reached. They are together for 94 years. Family Pattern: 6 kids, no pets, white picket fence, substantial amount of land, trees, and many cars(Jeep Wrangler and Corvette). Mammy's will do anything for one another and have the best kisses.
Gosh, those two have to be Mammy's, they are so cute. They are always matching!

Random Wife: Honey, Why can't we fmlove like those Mammy's?

Random Husband: Am I not good enough? -__-
Random Wife: No, you are... they do the Himen, and the Hideit. Get more creative you coobie.

7. a derrogatory term often said towards "ghetto" women who are characterized by their black air force ones, large hoop earrings, overuse of makeup, and over-dyed hair.
The ghetto mammy was standing on the street corner waiting for some business.


8. A very nasty, bitter woman, lacking in morals and individuality.
Because Deb felt cheated in life, she decided to become a Mammy and follow along with the other bitter people.


9. A black slave.See also nigga.
Get yo ass back to work mammy.

See the rest.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Intimacy



“Intimacy is seen as a sacred act and must be treated as such; it must happen within a sacred context. Intimacy is not just about pleasure. It is also about creating a healing energy from which the world can benefit — or from which you and your family can benefit.
In the Dagara tradition, we do a ritual called the “Ash Circle”. Take some ashes and say some prayers for what you would like to have happen in your intimate space. After making this circle, call on all spirits who can help you keep your intentions clear. Prepare this space so it truly may be a healing space. Then create a shrine and invite your partner to see it”.
Sobonfu Somé
Dagara Initiate (Burkina Faso, West Africa) & Author


What kind of ashes do you use?
You can use any ashes you have taken with respect from nature and that you have made prayers over. It could be from a piece of wood you have burned for another positive purpose.
Full interview here
http://www.awarenessmag.com/janfeb07/

Thursday, June 20, 2013

My Thought's about Teen boys "So called Tren"

This is the video. Don't watch it if you're not under the age of 18, or sensitive!

I Love Hip Hop I've been listening to Hip Hop music since I was little hanging out with my cousin. from the late 70's up to the 90's. Hip hop from the millennium is kind of OK, then it went from OK to not impressive. most rap now a days is about cars and women and all that stupid stuff that's does relate to their lives. I started hear about rap beefs which is fine. I don't care about that. but rap music that degrades women. This is why I don't listen to today's hip hop. if today hip hop haven't put women on video's shakin' their ass then I would have been OK with that. there's another rapper talking about drugging a woman and raping a woman. Really???? That's nothing entertainment about that. Then there Chicago teens rapping about violence and death, and people are listening to that. I don't mind kids rapping, but don't have them rap about stuff that's violent. I don't care how much money they make. I also come across a video with teen boy rapping, and mind you they were rapping about performing oral sex with a men. I was discussed about the lyrics I hear. They were rapping about it like it's a prestige. What is wrong with kids in this generation. I heard people say that the kids need fathers in their live. I agree with that, but if the single mothers are watching the boys and they are rapping that discussing crap, ether call the father or be tough and get on them boys. they shouldn't be out there embarrassing themselves like that on the internet. that's all I have to say about that!!!!!

      

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Thursday, May 2, 2013

My Special Message: They All Have Feeling by Forever Awezome


A mother tiger lost her cubs due to premature labor. Shortly after, she became depressed and her health declined. She was later diagnosed with depression. Since tigers are endangered, every effort was made to secure her health. Zoologists wrapped piglets up in tiger-print cloth, and presented them to the mother tiger. She now loves these piglets and treats them like her own. And needless to mention, her health is back on track. Yes, they all have feelings.




Monday, April 22, 2013

My Special Message: A story of the Donkey from William Besse on facebook



One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, th
e donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.

4. Give more.

5. Expect less from people but more from yourself.

You have two choices... smile and close this page,
or pass this along to someone else to share the lesson .

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Mom, boyfriend beat, killed child, made up kidnapping story: My Thoughts

Read these before reading my thoughts!!!!
Bryeon Hunter Amber Alert: Search Is On For 1-Year-Old Abducted In Maywood After Mom Was BeatenProsecutors: Mom, boyfriend beat, killed child, made up kidnapping story

      I been hearing this story since last week. I have also been hear that the boys body was found dead, and the mother murdered him (on Facebook). The first thing I did was researched the story before I reacted. When it was finally on the news Then I stared to believe it.
   
      First off, I have a problem with Parents that are unfit are able to have children. I have a problem with children always get killed over pettiness, violated or not being protected!!! I have been hearing a lot of crazy stories recently, and I'm sick and tired of it. And aren't they suppose to be financially and mentally stable to raise children. I understand disciplined I really do, but this story I hear on the news every day about children being abused is worse than disciplined. That's straight up abuse.

      The thing about the mother story: She says that 3 or 4 Hispanic came up to her and beat her up and took her child. She claim they were racist, but I've been around some Hispanic people, and they were nowhere near racist. some of them are nice people in my book. That story is a bunch of crap. Really????? You got to be a sick individual to harm something innocent, but that's not the case. I think she kept changing the story around, and to the Maywood Police it doesn't add up. Why it don't add up, because the three men accuse of the crime was cleared.

    The boy was found murder. One story I read say he wasn't Potty trained. The other say that he was crying so much. So this woman mean to sit up here and say that she murdered him because she was't potty train and he was crying. I feel like I can't even call her a woman anymore, because no real woman would ever do no S**T like that to a child all because she can't potty train him or give him love and affection. Someone once said on YouTube, all because you can reproduce. First of all, you got to ask yourself: Are you stable mentally and financially. Just think before you bring kids into the world. I'm not saying don't have children, but Just make sure you're really prepare to have children. Please!!!!!!!

Monday, February 25, 2013

A love conversation between a girl and a boy

girl:am I pretty?
Boy: NO!
Girl: do you want to be with me forever
Boy: NO!
Girl: would cry if I walked away
Boy: NO!
She heard enough and She was hurt, she then walked away.
Tears ran down her face.
Boy: grabbed her arm
Boy: your not pretty... Your beautiful
Boy: I don't want to be with you forever...I need to be with you forever
Boy: I wouldn't cry if you would walk away... I would DIE!
Boy: please stay with me
Girl: I will...
Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you between 1-4 pm tomorrow.
Get ready for the shock of your life!!!
If you don't post this on five other comments...
You will have relationship problems... Forever

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Birthday Wishes 2/17/13

Good Evening everyone,

My birthday wishes goes out to:


  • Katie Sitar
  • Michael Jordan
Happy birthday to each and everyone of you, and to those I have not call!

Life would be sooo Speacial!

Thursday, January 31, 2013

My Reaction to Hood Mother In Underground Atlanta Gets Tased by Security Guard

(I'm not talking about this on YOU TUBE)
      What the Hell? Whats going on in this word now a days? I just got off from work last night, and I came across the video on YOU TUBE talking about a hood mother getting teased in front of her kids. I was so curious I started looking at it. Those two women gets in this guards face, yelling at him cursing up the storm and I'm like "What is the problem?" The Guard was yelling at the Child just for screaming. Why do the mother let them yell in the first place? Why don't they control their kids? Therefore the Mother and her friend gets mad and yelling and cursing at him, and there's a lot of N bombs and F bombs thrown around. It ain't just the mother it's the kids! the kids are screaming out "You're Gay! You're Gay!" at the security guard. They are just as bad as their mother, and they even threatening him telling him "he'll get beat. it's not just that, she digs in her butt in public (that's what I've Heard).  there's a time and the place for all this crap, but in public? There causing a big huge scene, making themselves look like idiots in front of everybody! the women are just plain idiots! I don't care if you're middle class, rich, or famous! Women needs to stop approaching men like that. Like my mom told me, I you look like you want to fight, then they are going to treat you like you want to fight. The security guard had enough and went in and go get his teaser. that should be a warning to the women to LEAVE THE MALL, but NOOOO! They still assist on threatening him and cursing at him. the kids are still yelling "YOU'RE GAY!" did I mention that the kids are no older then 7 years old? They were like babies! How do they know what all that stuff they're saying means? the mother yet again gets in the guards he pushes her, she started fighting with the guard, and she got teased. Now the kids are standing there crying, and her Boyfriend wants to show up and be big and bad towards the Guard. I'm Like where the hell were this guy. You wanna act big and bad to the security guard, but yet you calm down your girlfriend that's acting an ass! I don't meant to curse, but this whole thing is so crazy right now! 

That's all I got to say about it. Tell me what you think?

It's not made up check the link
Hood mother got teased in front her kids